Jewish Matchmaking: Does Jewish Matchmaking Really Work?
(The following is a summary for my Jewish Matchmaking blog, of this widely circulated article.)
I have used both Matchmaking and Dating services. So first, let's talk about the differences. It is said that matchmaking is when you have marriage as a definite "end goal". But most guys who date, eventually end up with a steady partner, so there really isn't much difference in the goals.
In today's market, Matchmaking services get information details about you, then match you up with women who have also joined their service. But in reality, that turns out to be a very IM-personal way of doing things. Online Dating Sites use the latest computer questionnaires and personality surveys, to get your personal information. They use this to automatically remove the "bad" prospects - then let YOU do the picking!
Then there's the Size disadvantage: Matchmaking services and sites are much smaller. This means that you get far fewer women to select from.
Plus Jewish Matchmaking services tend to have a high cost. Those monthly fees really add up! Dating Sites give you LOTS of freebies upfront, then only charge you for whatever advanced services you actually use.
But worst of all, are the many Jewish Matchmaking scams. Recently, there have been many stories about Jewish Matchmaking services disappearing overnight. (And taking your money with them!) Online Dating Sites tend to be very large, which makes them much more financially stable. (They tend to last a long time!)
So if Jewish Matchmaking services are NOT the way to go, what is? Online Dating Sites of course!
Why? Great Dating advantages!
Online Dating Sites give you lots of freebies, let you avoid many offline upfront dating costs (like expensive dates just to "get to know each other"), and let you get acquainted WITHOUT in-person "rejection". Plus they're targeted: Single Jews for instance, can find several big, reliable Online Dating Sites - with large numbers of Jewish women! Many successful Jewish couples nowadays, admit they would have never met if they hadn't used an online Jewish Dating Service.
But that doesn't mean you can just sign up and be swarmed by women! You WILL have great success with an Online Dating Site - far more than by using a Jewish Matchmaking service. But you have to know the Secrets to using Online Dating Sites.
To find out how *I* learned these Secrets, look for my next articles - with ALL the details! Or if you’re in a hurry, you can just read this...
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